If You Have Nor Been Squaring Circles In Your Own Life, How Do Horses Know?

According to Buck Brannaman the now famous horse whisperer, Horses just do. He says," Most of the things people have going wrong in their relationship with a horse have a lot to do with the baggage they bring to the table. It is manifested in their relationship to the horse. A horse is so sensitive, it can't deal with a person packing that much baggage.It's not a workable situation for a horse. In order to meet the horse at a place where he accepts you, you have to get a handle on that stuff".

Isn't It An Open Secret That As Humans We React To Each Other In The Same Way?

Don't we sense the presence of emotional dissonance and unease in another person immediately? Don't we, just like horses and dogs and probably other living things too, pick up the bad vibes. Don't we ourselves also feel uncomfortable, when the vibes are coming from someone else.

To comprehend and learn from this, it is vital in my view that we live our lives allowing two principles to direct our relationships - and even our relationships within our families and with pets too.

First, unique as each of us are, we should remember that every thought we each think, every feeling we each feel are unique to each us. A few others may come close to thinking and feeling the same on occasions, but they will still never be identical. Our very uniqueness makes that impossible. And if we think or feel something long enough, that becomes part of our apparently natural behaviour to others, wittingly or unwittingly.

Second: just as we can have volunteered naively to store emotional baggage causing us to put these inhibiting behavioural patterns in place, so we can decide - equally voluntarily - to work through this baggage and lift the blocks on having easier and better relationships.

Does it work? I can vouch for that. Is it easy? No, but if it matters enough to you, beneficial emotional change is achievable.

Gerry Neale
Author of Squaring Circles
An Intriguing Cognitive Novel. More details available at www.squaringcircles.co.uk

The Novel can be obtained in paperback from www.amazon.co.uk

Squaring Circles Website Is On-Air!

Squaring Circles can be accessed on the following link by Clicking Here

Details are now posted about the Author, about the Novel, the Preface from the Book, and responses from Gerry Neale to questions about the book. Any further questions or comments you have about Squaring Circles, do post them on this Blog.

All that remains to be posted is the Book Review page. These are the reviews, comments and testimonials made by a number of people who have read pre-publication copies, that also appear on this Blog.

Happy reading and I hope sincerely that you, like others seemingly, will draw great value from the novel and  
and find it a great source of Hope.

Gerry Neale
http://www.squaringcircles.co.uk

Squaring Circles Is About To Go Live

Major Bookshops like Waterstones, WH Smith, Blackwell's and amazon.co.uk now have it available on line. It can be found either by the Title "Squaring Circles", or by the author, Gerry Neale, or by its ISBN 9780956868824. One of a number of reviewers has made the following comment:
  

"This is a truly engaging novel – an extraordinary ‘week in the life of’ a very ordinary human being.

Many of the characters have the only too common issues relating to difficult childhoods, to relationships, to control, to obsessions and addiction – issues that have profound effects on their families in particular and on their wider relationships. The book sensitively illustrates how so many of these issues endure because the person is unable or unwilling to confront and face them – and how this suppresses the real strengths that lie at the heart of their being.

The unique message of this novel is one of hope, displaying so much of the new findings from research in positive psychology and related fields. For anyone of any age who feels they have laboured with damaging and deep-seated attitudes and habits, it provides an ingenious route map to self-discovery and personal growth. This happens naturally through the interactions and wisdom shared between the key characters as they each seek to ‘square circles’ in their lives.

If you choose to read this, you may not only enjoy an engaging and sensitive story, you may also deepen your own journey of self insight and discovery."

Den Winterburn

'SQUARING CIRCLES - From The Dark Into The Light' is now available

Squaring Circles is an engaging, spiritual and joyful story of an illuminating journey of self-discovery. Readers share the anguish, the internalizing and then the eventual emotional release felt by the hero, Jonathan.

“This is a novel novel! Intensely thought provoking, it will raise inner awareness

in many readers.”

Grania Litwin, Arts & Entertainment

Feature Writer, Victoria Times, Canada  

“I am really thrilled by this novel.”

Elizabeth Shepherd, Romford, Essex

Obtainable from UK Bookshops or from them online or from Amazon.co.uk
ISBN: 9780956868824 Paperback £8.99
Genres: Fiction and Mind Body Spirit

Week of 20th June 2011 Could See New Meaning To The Term "Squaring Circles!"

News is coming of a new slant on "Squaring Circles" which could fundamentally change the way many of us view our ability to break inhibiting emotional patterns.